how do we create spaces that disrupt normalized violence?

“The erotic is a resource within each of us that lies in a deeply female and spiritual plane, firmly rooted in the power of our unexpressed or unrecognized feeling. In order to perpetuate itself, every oppression must corrupt or distort those various sources of power within the culture of the oppressed that can provide energy for change”

in what ways do men also benefit when we deconstruct patriarchy and normalize consent within the erotic?

how do we learn how to see harm that is made invisible to us?

How do we enact imaginations in ourselves, with each other, that enable the deepest feelings of the erotic?